Featuring Blogger & Author Marsha Ingrao @ Always Write

Thank you, Yvette for featuring me on your blog. It is such a great honor. To my readers who don’t know Yvette, please go by and explore her blog, Priorhouse Blog. She is full of wisdom and wit. Her photo challenges are so much fun to look at and read, and she connects with you rather than just pressing “LIKE.”

Prior Commentary on Blog Challenges

I’ve been friends with Yvette for at least five or six years and love chatting with her and admiring her photos. Her sense of humor and intelligent thoughtfulness augments the value of every photo she posts.

For Example

Morning Walker #1 (March 2020): The crack in the sidewalk is what grabbed my attention later when I looked at the photo. It is as if the man pressed his foot down and caused the crack. Or have I seen too many Super Hero movies (I don’t even watch any of those type of movies – haha  so who knows….). I found this photo to be interesting with the verticals (man’s body, tall building above his head, the other verticals right) and then the white t-shirt, Adidas socks, Nike sneakers, towel in hand – and then the row of open squares middle upper right. Old bridge new structure going up… hmmmmm  

See what I mean? Did you notice all that stuff? So I know you’re going to love her guest post.

Hi, my name is Yvette Prior and I have been blogging over at Priorhouse regularly since 2014. 

In today’s post, I wanted to share some thoughts about blog challenges. 

Marsha is currently running a series about blog challenges and I wanted to share a few thoughts because I have joined in with a lot of challenges over the years. 

Blog challenges refer to joining in with other bloggers to post about a theme or topic. There are many types of blog challenges.  Challenges can have daily, weekly, monthly, or yearly schedules. 

Blog challenges allow us to build connections – a niche social circle. 

The challenges that we join allow us to network and build rapport with others. Or they can – depending on how active we are and how others in the group respond to newcomers or to your unique contributions and style. One of my favorite challenges for building the “social circle” is the Lens-Artists’ weekly  photo challenge.  They have four main hosts, guest hosts, and then the many participants seem to be like-minded folks and it is a lot of fun. I also learn so much and it is nice to meet people from all over the world and with different backgrounds. 

Hosting requires effort and consistency. Yvette Prior

Lens-Artists’ Photo Challenge Hosts

Challenges Motivate Ideas and Creativity. 

Blog challenges motivate ideas and can help with creativity. Sometimes a blog challenge theme gives us a reason to snap that photo or write about a topic.  Sometimes I want to post after taking a break from blogging and I lack the motivation or just do not have ideas for the next post. However, then I take a look at some of the challenges and ideas flood in. It then comes down to deciding which ones to contribute to.

One – start with one challenge to get going 

If you are new to blogging and you are not sure where to start, I would say explore different challenges and start with one challenge.  

Read about what the host expects or prefers. For example, some challenge hosts really want participants to make a separate post to join in with their challenge. Other hosts do not seem to mind if someone combines one post to join in with multiple challenges.  

Also, make sure to join the challenge somewhat close to the day it starts. For example, if it is a weekly challenge, sometimes the entries fizzle out on days 5 or 6 as folks are getting ready for the next week.  However, some challenges welcome people to join in late, and it can be fun to see some entries trickle in. 

Two – Don’t feel like you are obligated to stay doing a challenge. 

If you are done, then walk away. I know it can feel like a break up and we do not want to hurt feelings, but if you stay blogging with an obligatory mindset – you will lose freshness. Blogging can have ups and downs and can have times of feeling like a drain, and so you must guard your essence. You do not want to get to the point of being “done” to where you exit and leave for good. 

Three – Watch the pull of blog challenges. 

The social connecting can be such a thrill here in the blog community. However, it can also pull you into what feels like a black hole. It can feel like a vortex has pulled you in and you need to get out. So draw boundaries. Find times to indulge, but do make sure you monitor your involvement. If I ever feel like I am getting sucked in, I might fast for a week or even thirty days. I actually suggest people do this before they feel the drain starting to occur. Regular breaks allow our threshold to reset and can lead to more enjoyment in the long run. This applies to many areas, not just blogging. 

Four – Make time to visit other bloggers that join in the challenge(s) you join in with. 

Balance task vs. relationships. Make time to join in and create a post (the task) but then make time visit other bloggers (relationship) that join in the challenge(s) you join in with. Visiting other bloggers is an important part of the blog experience. Don’t force yourself to visit, but it might take effort to make some rounds. And do not feel like you have to visit every single post that someone puts out there. It could be too much of “you” and the spaced out visits could be win-win for all. 

Also, it is nice to get and give “likes” – but some bloggers do not pay ever attention to the likes (or the likes don’t show up after you click it) and so leaving a comment always has more weight. Try to leave something specific (rather than general like “nice post” or “cool”) but do not feel like you have to write a book either. Sometimes less can be more, especially if you put a little bit of “you” into it.

Do not be afraid to say something as simple as “I enjoyed your post” because you might not be able to move into commentary mode so quickly. Some people have a natural (or developed) skill for reading a post and then having some thoughtful commentary. Others are still in view mode and do not always have thoughts come so naturally. And in my experience, any blogger that starts to gripe about “shallow comments” or “too general” of a comment might not realize the different modes people are in.

Five – If you reach a point to where you want to host a challenge, go for it. 

Hosting a challenge might be your next step. If you reach a point to where you want to host a challenge, go for it. It could be something that becomes part of your small “great works” as you connect and give a little back to the community. Or, it could be a short-term adventure that does not last long – but has allowed you to learn, grow, and meet other bloggers.

Hosting challenges can be a different experience for each host. The amount of work it requires will vary depending on the type of challenge it is but it usually requires a lot of effort. I stopped running a challenge because it added more time to my blogging hours and it was not something I enjoyed. Also, the inconsistencies were annoying. For example, one week there would be a lot of participants and a vibrancy but then the next week it felt lackluster with the sound of crickets.

So rather than hosting challenges, I contribute to the ones that align with my aims and interests. For example, a personal goal of mine is to write more flash fiction.  For a while, I was able to join in with three weekly flash fiction challenges and then narrowed it down to one. The challenge helps me hone a skill that I would not otherwise tap into.

Also, rather than hosting, I sometimes start my own themes for a series. For example, I do Wednesday Street Shots, What to Wear Wednesday, and Monday Morning Blooms. 

A passive host signals to me that they do not care about engagement – or they do not value each and every entry – and if they do not care – well then why should I?  Yvette Prior

Occasionally, I might be tempted to set up those series as challenge invites, but I refrain. Hosting requires effort and consistency. I only have so much time to blog (like most folks) and I also do not want to be locked into any forced schedule. I like some regularity that changes with the seasons, but to me, hosting a challenge feels like unenjoyable work – and so this is why I try to always thank the folks that do host  – their labor of love provides a lot for the blogging community. 

Most blog hosts will visit each blogger that joins their challenge. I think this is an important part of hosting. They set the challenge parameters and invite others to join. Then, they visit the bloggers that join in. It feels like a common courtesy and the visitation can lead to some fun connecting. 

However, some blog hosts do not visit the participants that join their challenge. I stopped contributing to a few challenges because the challenge host did not visit and did not seem to care who joined in. A passive host signals to me that they do not care about engagement – or they do not value each and every entry – and if they do not care – well then why should I?  

However, most challenge hosts do visit the participants, even if they keep the comments brief. Some challenge hosts visit and bring sunshine with them, and that can be such a boost. 

There are some challenges I stopped joining in with just because the topic no longer interested me or the challenge was not something I wanted to do anymore. The host might have been great and the other folks were awesome in that circle, but it was no longer a part of my desired blogging mode. I used to feel bad for leaving certain blog challenges.

However, I allowed myself embrace the freedom. I needed to discover new blogging modes and my interests had changed so it was not personal. Further, it can be quite draining to oblige or to stay with something because you feel like you have to.  If we force ourselves to participate it will backfire because the lack of genuineness will eventually show. We might stay present but withdraw with attitude and energy. Then everyone loses out.  So even though I feel bad for not joining in some challenges after being a regular, I hope that the integrity of the choice will outweigh any hurt feelings.

Also, I have found that we can join in with challenges occasionally. For example, there is a weekly challenge that I used to do for a couple of years. I no longer want that challenge in my blog schedule, but this year I was able to join in once. I might try and join again later this fall. There is another challenge that is monthly and I just joined in this month. I am not sure if this is optimal, to only join in once in a while, and so I will monitor how it goes because I do not want to occasionally join in if that does not align with what the host prefers.  

Sometimes I join in with challenges because I like the idea or theme. For example, with “Pull Up a Seat” challenge, it seemed like such a fresh idea and so I joined in. Later on I bonded with the hostess, who is this awesome lady from the West Coast. 

Other times I might start joining in with a challenge because I like the host. For example, Bush Boy’s monthly photo challenge was a good idea, but I joined in with it to connect with him – and his followers – more than really wanting to join another photo challenge.   I also have some challenges on my “to join in with” list – just because I like the host.  For example, VJ runs a weekly writing challenge that I have been meaning to join in with. 

Sometimes the host matters more than the challenge and I have left challenges because the host was grumpy.  Even though I liked the theme of their challenge – I just didn’t feel that as a “hobby blogger” I should have to endure certain mood swings. Of course the blog experience will always have social elements come up, because we are humans and not robots – but there is no reason to suffer through grumpy hosts. 

I have also stopped joining in with challenges because of some of the participants. For example, a weekly challenge that I did for years had a domineering participant who left comments that drained me. Subtle things, and nothing egregious, but it went on for months until I finally just decided that the social circle there was not for me. I grieved for a while – for the small loss – because I did make some nice connections, but I also felt freed up and it made room for something else. 

Norm’s Doors

Thank you so much for reading this post. I hope that my experience with blog challenges will give you some ideas and thoughts. You might be wanting to start a challenge, might be looking to join in with some, or you might be at a point where you need to pull back. We are all in different spots and the biggest tip is to make sure that you approach blog challenges in ways that keep you fresh. If you lose your essence, do too much, or fail to draw needed boundaries, you could end up drained and gone. Don’t let that happen. The hobby blogging community needs you for what only you can bring. ☺ 

Thanks for sharing this great post with us, Yvette. I learned a lot and enjoyed the introduction to some new photo challenges.

Thank you, my and Yvette’s friends for joining us today on Always Write. I hope this post is another step in helping you to always be a happy hobby blogger.

Reminder

I want to remind everyone that those interested in Flash Fiction are invited to join me when I host the Carrot Ranch Flash Fiction Rodeo Contest on October 20th-26th.

Carrot Ranch

A Selection of Non-Fiction Top-Selling Bargain Books

Top-Selling Bargain Books for Gifts

If you search Amazon for “non-fiction” you will turn up 3,429,300 results. How do you choose which ones to read? Which ones are top-selling bargain books? This week features guest blogger, Yvette Prior’s review of three of her non-fiction favorites.

I just met Yvette recently, and love her style of writing and photography at the Priorhouse Blog. Like me, she is an educator, so she was hard to resist. She also loves top selling bargain books and sharing books with friends. I hope as an author you do not care if you get paid for each time your book is read. Sometimes my friends and I pass around our favorites. Read on to find out what Yvette likes.

Guest Post by Yvette Prior

Yvette Prior's top selling bargain books
Yvette Prior

Three Books from September

Someone recently asked me about my favorite book genre and I answered, “I prefer Delancey Place genre.” (a review of When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi Amazon ranked #21 in all books and #27 in Kindle books. MI)

Well, that means I mostly prefer non-fiction….

Anyhow, while on my trip to South Carolina in September – I stumbled upon brand new “dollar” books (and you know how it is – can’t pass that up – I mean, I need to help move along the close-outs….as a courtesy). Anyhow, I narrowed my selection down to six books and then after a realistic shake of the head, I picked only three.

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I was with my sweet momma and so Mom & Me & Mom by Maya Angelou (2013) was an instant first choice.  This book felt like you were reading someone’s personal notes – with light thoughts, black and white photos, and short chapters – I found I knew a whole lot more about the late great Maya.

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Maya Angelou

Then, because I was staying in the Paris Room at our friend’s southern home, The Road to Burgundy by Ray Walker (2013) was tightly in my grasp.  This super easy read was all about Walker’s personal adventure of leaving his job and going to France to make high-quality wine in Burgundy. I enjoyed this book, which informed as much as it entertained, and now it is in the giveaway bin for someone else to maybe enjoy.

My last selection was Everyone Loves You when You’re Dead by Neil Strauss (2011).  I have yet to read it, but it looked interesting when I was skimming it. The copyright page says “No names or identifying details have been changed to protect anybody.” In this book, Strauss gives us 228 stories from more than 3,000 articles he had written after interviewing musicians, actors, and artists.  Keep you posted on this one.

Ok, in closing, I need to tell you that today’s post was inspired a blog post I read earlier at O at the Edges (the full post is Here). The O at the Edges post reminded me that there are many of us who have to balance our book collections. This post also really helped me to feel better about the large batch of books I just gathered up to give away (along with saying goodbye to our Keurig – we are done with it. My, my, my – trends come and go – and after loving the Keurig we see that it has sat unused for most of this year – I guess we all prefer our grind-n-brew and the Italian espresso maker).

Anyhow, as I part ways with dozens of books (most were cheap or free) it helps me to think that my donating them might lead to someone else appreciating them right now.  I have some books I will never part ways with, but some of these sweet reads just need to go….

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The 3 books I passed on……

Read more of her post here.

Yvette’s first pick of top selling bargain books

WOW!

Yvette has good taste in reading according to Amazon. Of all the top-selling bargain books Yvette’s choice, Mom & Me & Mom ranks extremely high: Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #4,860 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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