
Welcome to my blog. Thanks for visiting.
Hi, my name is Marsha Ingrao.
My husband, Vince and, our dog and three, no five cats live in Central California. Tulare County is the home of Agribusiness and the World Ag Expo.
Our house, BellaVista, nestles on an acre between several foothills of the Sierra Nevada Mountain Range with a straight-on view of Sawtooth Mountain. Ancient oak trees harvested by the Yokuts Indians line our street.

We are super proud of our little house, which we rescued from a bank nineteen years ago. We pulled into the driveway and instead of weeds and peeling paint my husband saw potential. I believed in his vision. He redesigned it and together we’ve pieced it together into a work of art. It’s a living jigsaw puzzle.
If you could see down the road forty- minutes away, you would see the big trees in the Sequoia National Park.
Family
My friends are my family because my family is so tiny.

I have a younger brother in Portland, OR. Like me, Randy and his wife have no children. Our parents, both only children themselves, have passed. Even our grandmother was an only child.
Marriage suits me. I’ve had two husbands, both for over twenty years. Mark Alvord passed away at age 47 of a rare genetic disease. His tiny family is all gone now. He also had a sister who had no children.
At forty-three, when I married Vince Ingrao, I gained what I’d always wanted but couldn’t have – a child! So what if he was a twenty-five-year-old son? Vince also gave me a brother and sister-in-law, niece, nephew and great-nephew, and a sister, and for a short time, parents. The Ingrao family is shy so posting pictures of them is like wrestling a hungry mama bear trying to feed her teen-aged cubs.
Career
I bloomed late like Leo the Late Bloomer.
Before I settled into what I really wanted to do, I served vegetarian breakfasts, lunches, and dinners at Portland Adventist Hospital. Then I earned the right to poke around in people’s mouths as a dental assistant.
After I tired of that, I sold real estate, then Parents Magazine door to door. You might guess that didn’t pay well. Mark and I both started working at our church. He was an assistant pastor and I was a teacher’s aid then a kindergarten teacher. We both went to school.
It takes forever to get your education when you wait!
Mark and I both needed further education, so we moved from Oregon to Colorado where he went to Bible College and we cleaned offices until midnight. That lasted him for three years.
I also worked as a proofreader at Walter Drake – a big mistake for a dyslexic person – trust me! Then I became the Recruitment Secretary for the Bible College. What fun! I gave tours and typed recruitment letters and term papers on a new Brother typewriter that could remember three pages.

When he graduated, we moved to California. Mark pastored Ivanhoe Church of the Nazarene. I managed different offices. I couldn’t wait to establish residency and go to college.
Since eighth grade, I had dreamed of becoming an elementary teacher. At age thirty-six, I finally ticked off that goal. Finally, a creative job! I had so much fun with the kids and had success teaching them, too.

After teaching, I went into administration at the Tulare County Office of Education. Working as a consultant, learning, and teaching best practices both in and out of the classroom checked off a goal I had written in my journal in my early twenties. My life bulged with opportunities to learn new skills.
Technology, like a first baby in the family, spun education (the parents – the way things always had been done) out of control. As the teacher/trainers in the county, we practiced with all the newest programs and equipment on the market. We spent a bulk of our time learning new skills to pass on. Still an educational newbie, I embraced technology and fell in love with how much it could do.
I could no longer lose my calendar, it was in the cloud. I seldom missed an appointment because I got tied up because a gadget beeped at me warning me that I had thirty minutes to get to my next visitation.
Classrooms had smart boards instead of blackboards. Teachers could access their computers with a touch of a digital marker on the screen rather than battle chalk dust or overhead projectors. Grades became digital. Google Docs became group assignments.
I loved teaching. I loved kids and I loved teachers. I loved the process.
Retirement
George Washington set the example. He stepped aside after he served as President two terms. Good thinking!
One teacher’s aid died in a reading group just before recess.
I dreaded dying in a classroom with my mouth open and my pants soiled.
Another teacher I knew had a stroke on the way home from substitute teaching at age 72. A very capable and conscientious woman, she ran a red light and killed someone and herself.
I worried that I might have an accident driving home on the freeway from doing an in-service in Terra Bella or headed home from a training in Sacramento or Los Angeles.
At age sixty, ideas still bubbled out of me. Project-Based Learning peeked over the curriculum horizon in California. I loved projects and the opportunity to start Project Based Learning in Tulare County fit me better than any of my suit jackets. I took a beginner class from my friend Michelle Herczog in Los Angeles and returned to the office bursting with enthusiasm.
However, I was the oldest consultant at TCOE. Could I/did I want to spearhead a new huge program?
I worried that my brain would give out. Living among the smartest people on the planet made my brain feel like it was in explosion mode constantly. All it would take was someone with a trigger finger, asking me a question I couldn’t remember and my brain was history.

Retirement, going out before people hated me, seemed like a better plan. My friend, Joy Soares, stood ready in the wings to run with Project Learning. My supervisor was thrilled.
Never regret your decisions! The program flourished far beyond my vision for it. Joy moved on and up with Project-Based Learning. Now Justin Paredes, a brand new teacher when I started, and another dear friend, serves as the Tulare County History Consultant. I am as proud as a mother of the teachers whose lives I touched. They advanced education farther than I could have imagined.
Blogging, Writing, Photography and Community Service
Since retiring, I write, read, blog, travel, shelter at home, garden, and stay busy serving the community. Because of this blog, Arcadia books contracted me to write a photo history of Woodlake – Images of America Woodlake. Writing a book fulfilled one of the ticks on my bucket list.
I’m the secretary of our Kiwanis of Woodlake Club and maintain the website, social media accounts, and the monthly newsletter.

Cancer, But Not to Worry
In 2019, cancer knocked on my door, as it had knocked on the doors of my parents and grandparents. Why not me? God blessed me with it because He loved me and knew it would make me a better person. Not only that, I did not lose any part of me that shows.
When you are born with a double harelip, a surgery that doesn’t show is no big deal. The doctors did a fabulous job of patching me up – no chemo necessary.
So I live on to serve. How can I help you?
Email: tchistorygal@gmail.com
Twitter: @MarshaIngrao
Testimonials
- Hi Marsha! I stumbled upon your blog, but I think I’ll stick around. Good work! Pleased to meet you, Marina
- Hello Marsha! I’ve decided to read and follow 15 interesting and new blogs a day every day for the first month of 2015, and yours is today’s #5! Jacob
- You have a great life philosophy. Thanks so much for visiting my blog.🙂 Sue
- Greetings! I’ve nominated you for the “Light of the World Award”! Congratulations!! Amreen
First and foremost I’m a teacher.

Greetings! I’ve nominated you for the “Light of the World Award”! Congratulations!!
Kindly follow this link to accept the award: http://painttheworldwithwords.wordpress.com/2014/03/28/celebrating-500-posts-with-light-of-the-world-award
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Thank you so much Amreen. I appreciate the recognition, but I just having you and others read my blog is award enough for me. Thank you so much for thinking of me. 🙂
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Oh that is sweet! You are welcome dear! Have a nice day 🙂
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You too, Amreen. 🙂
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Thanks for stopping by, Marsha and welcome aboard PSB. Hope you’ll enjoy your trips here.
Will be checking on your blog for more stories! 🙂
L.
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Thanks!!! I’ll be checking yours as well. 😊
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Hi, just stopping by to see how things are going. Hope things are great with you and yours.
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Hi Steve, I’ve just been really busy, but I’m fine. I’ll email you and Autty soon. 🙂
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Thanks for visiting and liking my post. Your bio is nice. Best wishes and Prayers
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Thanks for all, the wishes, prayers and the compliment. 🙂
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Hi, I’ve just nominated you for the liebster award 🙂 feel free to accept it or not… here is the link: http://byswav.com/2014/12/19/the-liebster-award-december-2014-paintings-by-swav/
Warm regards from sunny and a bit rainy Ireland, Swav
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Thanks so much, Swav! You are so kind. Thanks for visiting me in dummy California! 😀
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I remember the song ‘california love’ 🙂
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You have a great life philosophy. Thanks so much for visiting my blog. 🙂
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Thanks, the feeling is mutual. I’ll be watching for more on your cold story! I did the ice bucket challenge for ALS, and thought that was bad! 🙂
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I did that too! Maybe it was good training. 🙂
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Hello Marsha! I’ve decided to read and follow 15 interesting and new blogs a day every day for the first month of 2015, and yours is today’s #5! Feel free to come visit me when you can at http://www.thatssojacob.wordpress.com, and follow if you like what you read. Happy new year and happy blogging!
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Thanks for the honor. I will. 🙂
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Hi Marsha! I stumbled upon your blog, but I think I’ll stick around. Good work! Pleased to meet you, Marina
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Thanks so much!
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lovely write up of yourself! great…
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Thank you so much!
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you’re welcome 🙂
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Hi Marsha, I nominated you for the 3 Days, 3 Quotes Challenge. I’m publishing the post Wed at 7am PDT. The instructions are in the post. You are not obligated to participate. Take care 🙂
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Hi Terri, I don’t think I saw this in time. I don’t know how I missed it. I’ll check and see if this is still going. 😐
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Oh no worries, it was just a fun challenge you might have liked. You can always re-start it 🙂
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I couldn’t find the post about it. Could you send me the link? I’m doing the Ultimate Blog Challenge this month kind of alternating between my two blogs. Are you doing it?
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Not the Ultimate Blog Challenge, although, when I post, I include it on the page. I don’t have a link, it was a challenge from back in July.
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Oh. I guess they have four of them a year. I’ve never tried one, but I decided to try this one because it’s only for a month. I have the two blogs. I thought I would switch back and forth between them. I think a person can post too much and too frequently, so I don’t want to do that. 🙂
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Very nice to meet you, Marsha! I will have to come back again.
Lily
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Awesome. I enjoy chatting. 🙂
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I enjoy your blog!
I have nominated you for the three days three quotes challenge. If you decide to participate, the rules and the nomination link are provided here: https://milspouseprose.com/2016/10/25/the-third-of-three-days-three-quotes-henry-cate-vii/
Thank you!
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Thanks, Tricia!
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Hi Marsha, I’ve just discovered your blog and I anticipate spending lots of time here. You’re answering the questions I’ve been asking myself…..and some I didn’t even know how to ask. Thank you!
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Thank you so much! You just made my day. My computer and I are having issues this morning. 🙂
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Ah yes, computer issues. I know them well. Here’s hoping yours are resolved shortly.
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Thanks! It’s just slow- trying to upload a video. 😳😳😳 You know how obstinate large files are! Nobody wants them unless you upgrade. 😀😀
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Indeed. Oh, btw, the polldaddy attachment is just jiberish?
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Thanks, I’ll check it. 😜😜😜😜
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Hi Jenda, Are you talking about the poll on the artist post? I just checked it, and it looks ok. Each picture is numbered and has a name, is that the one?
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Replied in the thread on your page….
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Hi again Marsha, this is the link. It is just line after line of text on my screen. (I don’t see it on your page)
https://polldaddy.com/js/rating/rating.js
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Thanks, I’ll check it.
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Marsha, this is a terrific about page!! Adoring that pic of you with “Not Vince!”
I’m totally blow away by all your opportunities to connect!!
Melinda
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Thank you so much, Melinda. That means a lot!
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You’re welcome, Marsha my friend.
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The “My Family link isn’t working.
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Thanks for letting me know!!! Technology!!!
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I know!!
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So great to meet you Marsha. Glad you dropped by my blog so that I could find you here. I look forward to exploring more of your blog, which looks absolutely wonderful by the way. Seems we have a lot in common. Cheers!
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That’s what I thought from what Carol said. 😀😀😀😀
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How wonderful! 😄
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Hi Marsha, thanks for popping over to my blog Kyrosmagica and leaving such a lovely, message. Really appreciate it. Lovely to discover your blog today. 🙂
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Thanks, and lovely to discover yours. You are doing a great thing for writers and bloggers. I want to help out however I can. 🙂
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Oh thanks Marsha, that’s great. Do you want to join the group?
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What are the rules and responsibilities? I think I’d love to if you don’t mind if I’m a flake sometimes. My schedule gets crammed sometimes.
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It’s run by me so it’s going to be a pretty chilled group. Lol…. If you could share in the idea in principal, supporting authors, loving books, posting occasional links re: reviews to the club FB page or author interviews, etc. That kind of thing. Nothing too time consuming. Basically sharing what you already do via the club, and making new blogging friends. 🙂
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It’s run by me so it’s going to be a pretty chilled and haphazard group. Lol…. If you could share in the idea in principal, supporting authors, loving books, posting occasional links re: reviews to the club FB page or author interviews, etc. That kind of thing. Nothing too time consuming. Basically sharing whatever posts you want to via the club and or liking other members posts. Just a bit of fun!
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I’d love to, then! How fun! 🙂
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Great I’ll include you on the next post Marsha. Thanks for joining. 🙂
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How exciting! 🙂
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🙂
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Wonderful service, thanks!
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Thank you so much.
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Enjoyed your bio and your turn of phrase.
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Thank you so much, Irene. I’ve been around a while! 🤪
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Nice to meet you, Marsha. I am meeting you via Terri’s blog. You have a interesting, beautiful blog and I have subscribed to it. I look forward to reading more. 🙂 Erica
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Hi Erika, Thanks for the compliment and for visiting via Terri. She’s been a good blogging friend for several years now. She does such a great service for the blogging community. I’ve used several of her free photos in my posts. She is such a great photographer and very generous. Thanks again for stopping by. I look forward to getting better acquainted. 🙂 Marsha
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Hi Marsha
Thank you for visiting my blog.
I enjoyed reading your bio and how you have taken on the challenges that life has brought you.
I’m very glad Charli Mills of Carrot Ranch “introduced” you to us Ranchers at her site! 😊
All the best for the days ahead.
Saifun.
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Hi Saifun, thank you for that sweet comment. I’m glad that Charli introduced us as well. I have a feeling we will be good friends. 🙂
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Hey! How’s things.. It’s been a while since Blogging University (Class of 2014) Cheers from Ireland 🙂
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Cheers to you, Swav.
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Hi Marsha,
It is good to call you friend – and also to read your words. You have talent at putting nouns with verbs, and a personality that shines on your pages. I look forward to more!
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Thanks, Steve. We are going to miss our church family. The good news is that we can go to church inside here in AZ. We didn’t make it today, but we plan to attend regularly at the Nazarene Church in Prescott.
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Steve, here is the link to my short storying. You will find a little about our discussion on bullying. If you already read it, I apologize. https://tchistorygal.net/2020/11/26/story-chat-jennys-bumpy-start/
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I Marsha. Greetings from Cincinnati. I started blogging in August 2008, and finally stopped in Feb 2020 after over 2300 posts. However, I resurrected on a new blog this past October. I too am retired … got to love it!
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Thanks for the comment, Frank. You are truly prolific. My dad used to travel to Cincinnati for work when I was a kid. He designed furnaces and air conditioners fir Bryant Mfg, Carrier Corp. I’ll check out your new blog.
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I’m only 19 posts in … but hey – experience has taught me well. The old blog was eclectic – the new one has a common theme. Nice change of pace.
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Mine is relatively eclectic. I tried to focus and was unhappy with the results. I guess focus is not my strength. My focus is on hobby blogging which is pretty eclectic. Best wishes with your new blog. I hope you didn’t destroy your first blog!!!
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The new one is actually eclectic, just in a different way. I invite you to stop by … just like one. The first blog still exists, Here’s my last post. https://afrankangle.wordpress.com/2020/02/04/on-the-finale/ I actually did a 5-part closing, which you can see in the sidebar (Recent Posts). I’m going to send you another link that I think fits what you do. https://afrankangle.wordpress.com/2020/02/04/on-the-finale/
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I think it is eclectic. Any time you open yourself up to “thoughts” then they are going to be all over the map. I love the beach, so you can’t go wrong as far as I am concerned. 🙂
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How’s this – Eclectic in terms of content – Homogeneous in terms of style and voice.
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Agreed
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I enjoyed your finale. That was a good way to close it out without deleting it. My sense of happiness with blogging has returned since I discovered a purpose in hobby blogging. It has an important place in people’s life. I think your “The Puzzle’s Last Piece” made that clear. “I enjoy research. I enjoy writing. I enjoy interacting with visitors. To me, those are very important factors of blogging. I try to practice what I believe. If someone takes the time to comment, I feel obligated to be welcoming and reply with something meaningful. Then again, that’s time consuming – let alone reciprocating and visiting my favorite blogs.” I hope that you will continue to reciprocate here, Frank. I just started a new challenge, which I think will fit you well on Wednesdays. Either way, whether you participate with us or not, I’ve enjoyed our chatting together. Thanks for stopping by. 🙂
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Marsha … Many thanks for not only reading the finale, but also for understanding what I was saying. Regarding your Wednesday, now I’m curious … and hopefully time works in my favor tomorrow to stop by. Thanks for the invite. I’ve got the feeling we are like-minded – to me, a good thing. So hey – if you have an idea where I can help, let me know.
Thanks for dropping by BWR … I’ll reply soon. My two favorites are the Moon (#18) and Horizons (#7).
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I’ll check them out. 🙂 Thanks Frank. It’s been a pleasure to get to know you.
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I wrote a post about the blogging blues (linked in the first paragraph). The comments were so good, I turned them into a 5-part series about blogging. This link is to the fifth, but the others are at the end of the post. https://afrankangle.wordpress.com/2015/07/26/on-writing-for-blogs/
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Very nice, Frank. I left you a comment on your blog. I’m glad you haven’t deleted it.
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Several bloggers asked me to keep it up. Not that I was considering taking it down, but they sealed the deal. Besides, I was thinking just maybe there’s something in here that someone will use.
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It’s part of who you are. When I was going to destroy my Always Write self-hosted blog, my friend Sally suggested that I download it to my old blog and save the content. It’s been a messy process, but I had years of work poured into the site. You may rework some of your 2,000+ articles. It’s enough to keep you busy for the rest of your life if you run out of things to do! 🙂
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PS: Thanks for letting me know a Cincinnati connection in your life!
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Thanks for contacting me.
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Dear Marsha Ingrao,
Hello! I shall respond to your long and excellent comment at my post entitled “💬 Misquotation Pandemic and Disinformation Polemic: 🧠 Mind Pollution by Viral Falsity 🦠” at https://soundeagle.wordpress.com/2020/12/19/misquotation-pandemic-and-disinformation-polemic-mind-pollution-by-viral-falsity/ with a bespoke reply as soon as I can, as I still have a number of errands to attend to.
Meanwhile, there are plenty of posts and pages on my website to whet your appetite. Please feel free to savour their high degrees of interdisciplinarity and multidisciplinarity stylishly presented to your heart’s content.
I would like to wish you and Vince as well as your dog and five cats a wonderful festive season. May you find the rest of 2020 and the New Year very much to your liking and highly conducive to your writing, thinking and blogging!
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I wish you the same, Sound Eagle. I will enjoy reading you post later. It’s past my bedtime and I think my eyes might dry up. 🙂
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Dear Marsha Ingrao,
What a pleasure it is to read your “About” page! I shall take the time to read it a second time later. In return for letting me know so much about you, here is a post through which you can get to know me (and my mother) a lot more:
https://soundeagle.wordpress.com/2019/08/31/khai-khim-for-always-and-beyond-goodbye/
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Thank you, Khai. Thank you for sending me this wonderful article. It took a long time to read, and I know I missed some of it, but it was thoroughly enjoyable and lovely.
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I can’t believe I’ve never read this before! I feel as if I’ve known you forever, but at a distance, if you know what I mean. 🙂 🙂 I’m stopping by today primarily to let you know I got your email and to apologise for my tardiness. I will reply in the next day or two but I did want to give some thought to your questions and I do seem to’ve been pretty busy lately. A poor organiser- I think you can definitely say that. Or easily distracted 🙂 Anyway, you come across as a lovely person, Marsha, and I’ll be in touch soon.
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Thank you so much, Jo, I know exactly what you mean. When I post an interview, I get much better acquainted because I spend time on someone’s blog. It’s a lovely time. I also spend more time reading comments. Yes, it takes time, but I have more of that now, and in spite of leaving my friends, I’m never lonely because I have virtual friends world-wide. 🙂 I’ll look forward to publishing your interview – no rush. I’m not on a schedule since I ask people to participate as I go along. 🙂 Have a great day, Jo. 🙂
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